I have the opposite of that I believe most people have the ability to change their situation.

Yeah, and that is what I'm calling you out on, because I don't believe that. Saying that everyone who has a bad life is lazy and compliant because you were able to escape your situation is just immature and shortsighted.

I'm talking about people living paycheck to paycheck because they grew up under shitty circumstances with no aid from family. You are talking about dropping out of college so you can spend almost 2 months looking for a job while still providing for your family. Surely you can see why these situations are fundamentally different without feeling personally attacked?