Work on yourself and then girls will come? What if that hasn't happened for you yet

Dress presentable, eat well, exercise.

Moisturize your face. Be responsible. Know how to cook and clean.

Work on your social skills. Compliment people (men and women) randomly. But be careful how you do it.

Get out in your community more often. Go different places and talk to random people, just small talk.

Open doors for men and women.

Don't treat women as a prize to be won. Treat them as an individual. Not saying you're treating them as a prize, just giving you advice.

Help your community: Do volunteer work and other similar things.

For more money (since you said you were broke) Start creating stuff and selling them. That'll help you meet new people and give you more money. You'll be surprised by how much someone is willing to pay, if you're good at something. Sell outdoor decorations, make and sell candles, think about doing some other creative stuff.

For more job offers: Learn more skills. Decoding, Decorating, Organization, Cooking, Fixing Vehicles, taking things apart and putting them together and so on. That'll help with more job opportunities.

Get a diary or journal and write in it. See if you can talk to a therapist. See if you are eligible for any financial help. Go to grocery stores that sell their food cheap, get rid of any unneeded added expense. Budget your money and learn to invest. There are a lot of books out there for beginners about investing, you don't have to be rich in order to invest.

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