Working parents of DotA2, how much do you play?

I'm only engaged but I'm already struggling to get in one game a week recently, though I do blame my fiancee's grad school for that. We're preparing for a move in a few weeks, she is just finished up on most of her school, but it seems like the fates conspire to keep me from ever having a free hour.

If I play while she is around there is always a huge risk that something will come up. Either she will have forgotten some final school thing she has to go to (happened today, forgot she was required to attend this post-mortem on a project the faculty were hosting, had to rush out to drive her there) or something will appear, or she will decide to work with me on the wedding.

Most of my time is also consumed by cleaning or taking care of people. She is basically unable to do anything most of the time because of the time constraints her Masters Degree put on her, though that is basically over. Yesterday, a day I should have had to do nothing, bad luck struck and she got into a TREMENDOUS fight with her father about nonsense (he's got anger issues) and she spent the whole day sobbing and feeling unloved so I had to dedicate the entire day to her.

Today I'm running errands all day, from dropping her off/picking her up to trying to get the things I need for my Banjo lesson (somehow NONE of the straps at the music store fit my banjo, clerks baffled, I'm used to this divine punishment) to having to deal with the bullshit the cats are up to (they ate all their food and are tripping me over any time I walk with their aggressive demands for attention and more food, so off to the store I have to go) and also trying to keep the house up to snuff so we can continue moving out and planning to show people the apartment.

I got in a single unranked game last night at 1:00 after she fell asleep, and that was my first game in 11 days. I am absolutely unhappy with this amount of gaming because I am also not getting any of my own work done (I am a game dev myself but on "family leave" while I get us moved out of here) and it means that for the past 260+ hours I have been unable to squeeze more than 1 hour of "free time to do whatever I want" into my schedule.

With kids I have no idea how I will manage it, but in a lot of ways I think the routine chaos of children will be easier to manage and schedule around than the unadulterated chaos of where I am now.

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