Would it have been so hard to include my name on the invitation?

I had a similar situation with one of the girls in my boyfriends main friend group (marrying one of the guys) who has been with him for a few years longer than me and my boyfriend have been together. She was always so sweet to my face but I always had a bad feeling about her, when their wedding came around she took every opportunity to exclude me (I got the “&guest” on the invite and was not invited to the rehearsal dinner because my boyfriend and I weren’t engaged or living together, though we had been dating for several years by this point and my bf was in the wedding). My suggestion is to kill her with kindness. Not only will she feel like a jerk (at least on some level), you’ll feel like a mature adult who has nothing to be sorry about. Good luck!

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