Would you be comfortable with this?

As a queer person this doesn't seem odd to me at all.

Queer community is important to a lot of folks and breaking into the queer community in a new city isn't always easy - even if you go to events aimed at queer folks people often just hang out with those that they already know. You think it's weird because you personally would just join sports or activities to meet folks but when you're missing in this whole situation is that she isn't just trying to make friends in a new city - she's trying to meet people in a community that she is a part of that don't really have a centralized place to meet each other or a specific activity that would result in meeting each other.

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