Would you consider nursing home for terminally ill parent?

My mother suffered a pretty serious stroke and was diagnosed with cancer. During treatment became septic and was released from hospital under Hospice care expected to live a few weeks due to infection risk (roughly 6-12 months if it was the cancer). It has now been 5 months. She is bed bound and needs almost full support to get out of bed/pivot to chair. Obviously can't walk, or bath herself. She also has a catheter and is bowel incontinent and can't clean herself. She can basically sit and feed herself if you bring her food. Mentally she isn't competent, often says confusing things, difficulty understanding and rationalizing anything; agitated and delusional about her status - but can still talk normal and carry on a conversation, has long term memory/knows who she is and where she is. She can be alone for periods of time since she basically just watches TV, but needs a lot of help/supervision since she can stay clean, can't get up to feed herself, may have an emergency (stroke/seizure/vomit). She is recently divorced, has no resources/savings/assets. I am married with a two year old, very average, work part time, don't have any spare resources financially. I am wondering how much responsibility I should take/what an outsider might expect of me as far and bringing her into my home and taking her care on personally and hiring aids vs. placing her in a nursing home? Any thoughts on what you might do?

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