Would you ever travel to another country to find your soulmate/partner?

I met mine by accident when doing my undergrad work abroad and we’re happily married. The cultural differences make for a rich and intentional relationship, for two people with compatible personalities and shared values.

However, a few things in your post make me question your motivation, notably your use of the term “hitting the wall” (a known red pill term), targeting Southeast Asia for dating, and lamenting how bad dating is in America.

I mean if you have extensively dated and have found pervasive values in the dating pool that conflict with yours, I can understand wanting to look elsewhere.

No problem with interracial dating, I think it is wonderful that race doesn’t pose a legal barrier anymore (at least in the US). However, if you are targeting a specific race because you think Asian women are going to treat you like a demi-god, that is a very unfortunate way to start and I feel bad for you and for the women you may encounter.

/r/AskWomenOver30 Thread