I never claimed I wanted to get any plus points here, nor do I care if anyone here wants to date me. Please don't misconstrue what I said, I never said "date me cause of my struggle." What I tried to describe is the way most people, especially femcels, cannot fathom how tough it can be out there for a man, even if they're trying to looksmax and aapproach women. What it feels like to me (and I'm not saying this is definitely true, I could very well be wrong) is that the majority of femcels aren't incels but in fact volcels. The struggle of mine and most incels is that they cannot find any girl who would even give us a chance to get in a relationship with them, not that they can find the right girl for them personally. That's why I wondered if it's because of my looks or something else. Maybe I'm too androgynous, maybe too small, maybe my nose is too crooked, etc. I wanted to find out if your sentiments are similar to my judgements about myself. You really misunderstood my message if you think I did this for "plus points".

Secondly, I don't think you know how I approach people :P I think my attitude is respectful but if you disagree I'll agree to disagree.