would you want to know if your friends didn't like your fiance?

Meh. Not really. This is assuming everyone involved is a mature adult and the relationship is healthy.

I don’t care for some of my friend’s partners/husbands. I think sometimes judgement can be clouded. To me, my gal pals are some of the best people to walk this planet. So to see them put up with men who don’t even do their own dishes is hard. But I trust their judgement and know there are beautiful parts of the relationship that I don’t get to see.

The reverse is probably true for some of my friends looking in on my relationship.

I think as long as we can vent to each other, but also try to see both sides and encourage each other to be our best (even when the relationships get hard), that’s all that matters.

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