I would love to text "good morning " to my love

I'm sorry. I know there is nothing worst than that feeling of someone slowly drifting away from you and no matter what you do, makes it even worst.. I've been there.. like drowning in a quicksand.
And you are still trying to justify why this happened in your head.
I'm sorry but whatever you do or say to her will make it worst right now. She may permanently block you because seeing you like this will make her feel bad too. You have to let it go at least for now.

You need to understand why this happened. Your expectations and your needs did not match her needs. She felt suffocated while you kept demanding more attention. She asked you to give her space you kept clinging onto her because you were so much in love and too scared to lose her. But you failed to acknowledge her needs and boundaries. Maybe she intentionally backed away from you to see how you will react or maybe she just needed some alone time and you became more obsessive because you were scared to lose her.
In order to have a good healthy relationship in life, you need to have the courage to be able to walk away and detach no matter how much you love someone. If someone is ignoring you, you don't beg to them because you respect yourself. You stay where you are like a rock and don't move and don't chase. They come back to you. But occasionally they don't and that's a good thing. It means that they never loved you as much as you did. No matter how special the connection is.. You really owe this to yourself. And you cannot have a healthy loving relationship until you get to this point in life.

You wanted good morning msg and she didn't. Your feelings got in the way and you couldn't see that. You need to learn that you are not responsible for someone else's feelings. You are responsible for your own including your own happiness.
It's not about if it's bad or not, or your beautiful thoughts and good intentions, it's about understanding someone else's needs. Infjs have limited energy so they can't be with you all the time for their own sanity. I think an Enfj would have suited to what you needed from a relationship much better. She would probably give you more text and attention than you need. It also understanding your own needs. This person wasn't able to give it to you the amount of attention you wanted. There is nothing wrong with that and it isn't about you and you need to understand this first.

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