Writing NC Letter

I don’t personally believe in long NC letters. The narc isn’t going to read them.. and even if they do it’s like poking a bear and/or they won’t learn anything from it.

It’s probably a cathartic experience to write it all down... but not sending it is best imho.

I’ve very simplified my feelings to explain going super low contact via text. And of course that was dismissed too, but I feel better about it than if I had wasted sending some elaborate thing.

It boiled down to “For reasons we’ve already discussed, I don’t feel you are a safe and trustworthy person to be around.” There was another sentence (because this was in response to a nasty comment about not “sharing things” with her, but that was basically it.

Short and to the point.

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