I appreciate your perspective. I do forget we aren't married, as it feels like we are. And that's a good point, I'm NOT married to her, I'm NOT supposed to be 100% responsible for her. I'm just so used to paying 100% of everything, that it sort of never occurred to me that like... I shouldn't be expected to. Her parents think I should just kick her out, or block her from the wi-fi, don't let her eat my food, etc. as motivation for her to get a job, but they don't see the anxiety she has, and how hard it is for her to just get up everyday. Then again, I always worry I fucked her up by letting her quit her job after the first year together. She was just going to be out of work for a few weeks, working on a script for a short film. It just went downhill after that. =/

My problem is... what the hell do I do now, ya know?