Is it wrong to hook up with someone and not tell them that I am trans?

First of all, never be embarrassed for being your authentic self! If someone doesn’t like you for you, then frankly, they can f@!& right off.

Second, you are young. So young. You don’t have to have everything figured out right now. If someone seems fun, have fun with them. Your 20’s are for having all the fun!

Third, please be careful meeting guys at bars and doing things with them. They are drunk/buzzed after all and intoxicated people are unpredictable.

Now for the serious stuff. My opinion, and my opinion alone (folks don’t have to agree with me here) is that I would personally not go beyond kissing, maybe even making out (you’d have to feel the person out) without telling them. If it feels like it’s about ti go further than that, I’d mention it, but that’s just me. Do you HAVE to tell them? No. But if you’re asking if you should, I’m just saying if it were me I would. Especially with intoxicated people.

Why don’t your friends support your dating life?? Perhaps it’s time to reassess your friend pool.

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