Just to note, I can agree with you and still point out that your post contained fallacious implications or strictly incorrect statements.

This section of your post

Those people were like, "it's kinda shitty and manipulative to make a guy wait for no reason." That's exactly the kind of thing that guys like this think when they flip out.

Attempts to discredit the statement "it's kinda shitty and manipulative to make a guy wait for no reason" by linking it yo a negatively perceived group, the guys that flip out.

The implied argument is "those guys think this thought. Those guys are bad. Therefore this thought is bad".

That's a textbook demonstration of the "Hitler ate sugar" fallacy; which goes "Hitler ate sugar. Hitler is bad. Therefore sugar is bad".

I agree with you that those guys are bad, and that women do not owe then a response.

I do not agree with the intellectual dishonesty you showed in your attempt to discredit the unrelated idea of "that behavior is manipulative" by associating it with that shared group in absence of any actual response.