Sorry but I can't stand these stories that act like you become enslaved and your life completely ruined by having kids young.

I had twins at 21 and was a single parent. I too have a career am a homeowner and have hobbies. Jeez.

I also had an abortion later. It didnt save my life. And having another kid would not have made that much of a difference. No more than getting a puppy albeit a bit more expensive and time consuming.

Having my kids was the best thing that has ever happened to me. Women need abortion access but kids are not some horrible crisis most of the time. Its like a puppy. It shits on the floor when its young and you have to feed it.