Young men of who worry about turning into their fathers, what are you doing to prevent it?

Thank you. You could say I’ve always enjoyed alcohol... love craft beer, love relaxing and mellowing out. It wasn’t until last year(age 36) to where something changed, and I started drinking way to much medicating the stress I was dealing with. I was in a dark place and ended up drinking to much whiskey one night while I was at home with the family. I didn’t do anything stupid in my drunken stupor... aside from just being drunk, but what hurt the most was that I did it around my kids. I stopped drinking for 8 months after that. I purchased beer a couple times past the 8 month mark, (one was to celebrate my dickhead boss quitting), but haven’t bought any since and I probably won’t anytime soon. I’m actually quite disgusted by it now.

I know I’m not my father by any stretch of the imagination, but his alcohol consumption definitely caused major turmoil in his marriage and in my relationship with him... and I just don’t want any of that bullshit in my kids lives. Not worth it. Love those kids way to much.

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