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You realise not all sex workers have sex with their clients, right?

I'm an online-only sex worker. I do webcam shows and make videos. All my videos are solo, I have never and would never make a video with another actor (male or female). All my work is strictly online-only, I have never and would never meet up with a client in real life. I have never and would never even send a physical item to a client (worn panties etc.). Everything is completely professional and stays entirely in the online realm.

Some men I've dated have been completely fine with it. "You're not actually doing anything physical with anyone, it's all online, and you make a shit ton of money, so it doesn't bother me at all".

Some men actually like it "I love that millions of men drool over you and jerk off to you, but I'm the only one who gets to touch you."

Some haven't been ok with it "I know you're not actually touching anyone or doing anything physical, but I want to be the only person who gets to see you naked".

I'm upfront from the beginning, and if it bothers them, we go our separate ways (because there's absolutely zero chance I'm giving up the job I love, where I make 6 figures working 20 hours a week from home for a man, even if he was the perfect man).

But yeah, I would never accuse someone of misogyny or anti-sex-worker bias for not wanting to be with me because of my job (unless the way they word their feelings reveals misogyny or anti-sex-worker bias, e.g. "I can't be with a filthy whore"). If they word it respectfully, it just means we're not compatible.

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