Your experiences are valid

I have no clue what my goals are. Frankly I'm not even interested in a relationship (never have been) but I want to expand my horizons. I do the generic school and work thing and will get a masters in statistics in a couple years but that isn't really a goal for me just something to do.

I do have a specific career goal but I'm not sure how feasible it is and that's at least 5 years in the future.

When I say I feel jealous I just mean that I don't have any romantic experience and hearing about people getting it so freely makes me feel bad about my inability to do so. So once I'm able to do so and able to figure out if I'm interested in casual dating or LTR or any other thing I think that'll be gone.

I don't really care about the concept of betabuxing because I'm not someone who would ever get married but I get why some people hate it so much. Because it is a trope that the party girl decides to settle down and suddenly isn't interested in anything sexual beyond the bare minimum I guess.

But yeah I really just don't know what I'm doing. Life is hard and I'm hit by it all at once rather than coming in waves so I have time to acclimate.

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