I also think it's especially cruel to harass a widow when all she asked was that you stop using her bereaved's name. That 'harassment' was phone calls of her begging you to stop, yeah eventually she's going to fucking snap and start saying some terrible things. (not that I agreed with her words)

You really did drink your own koolaid.

All these people ( some I know some I don't ) have always supported you until you threw your tantrum and betrayed them. I find it incredibly telling how all this went down when it was decided that people didn't want you running WS. As soon as you caught wind you weren't going to be in charge suddenly you decided to air all the 'dirty laundry' threatening to share things told to you in confidence and blowing things out of proportion. No community is perfect, but we have been actively taking measures to improve, looking at where we failed and learning from that. ( just one of the things we've started in the 3 months it's been since this went down is mandatory consent and crisis training, the opening and removing of the boundaries of staff camp, a shit load of new rules, regulations, and a serious moot in which people could anonymously air the issues they have been facing. This is something we've banned together to do while also dealing with loss.

So no, we're not in preschool anymore so you can stop throwing tantrums to get what you want. I can assure you I'm pretty much the only one who comes here and I came here because it's the internet and it's a public place and I happen to be in a lot of the same subreddits as you, and one of those subreddits just happen to make a call out post pointing out your toxic and unstable actions. Which had recently been a huge issue in the nonline community.

That being said I can see that this is going no where and anything I could say isn't going to do much more than screaming into a hole.

I'm done with you, I've said my piece, I don't think you deserve abuse, but you also don't deserve to abuse others.