3. In your opinion, (context in comments) are strip clubs sexual?

In your opinion, (context in comments) are strip clubs sexual?

Probably an obvious question, but there's context.

My (28f) boyfriend (36m) is telling me I am insecure being uncomfortable if he goes to a strip club and telling me it's just a sports bar that happens to have nude women and isn't sexual? Is this true about a strip club not being sexual?

I call bullshit, but he's accusing me of making assumptions about somewhere l've never been.He's telling me I'm insecure for not being comfortable with it and I should be in therapy to sort out my insecurities and ask myself why it makes me insecure?

I tried telling him my perspective of how I think it's different when a guy in a relationship goes to a strip club and is paying for sexual visuals or even physical if getting a dance all while paying for it, so to me I think that's disrespectful to a relationship.

I really appreciate anyone's honest feedback and I'm open to being wrong/judgemental.

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