Your username is now a class subject you must teach children. What happens now?

True love stories/ true friendships never have endings. Love always cures people – both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it. If you keep giving up on people so quickly, you're gonna miss out on something great. There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness. Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together. Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age. Maybe you don't need the whole world to love you. Maybe you just need one person. Don't try to be something to everyone. Be everything to someone. Never love something so much that you can't let go of it, but if you do just don't let it go.


It's your life. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for living it your way. It’s not a good idea to expect someone else to come by and change your life for you. No, they will 100% mess it up for you, be it your parents, extended family members, best friends, co-workers or relatives.You need to cut out these type of people from your life. Only you can do it, and if you want to make a change in your life and be more than you’ve been, you have to be the one that provides the energy, that takes the steps

If you’re waiting around for conditions to be perfect before you stick your neck out you’ll be waiting forever. Work like there is someone working 24 hours a day to take it away from you. This is true because if you’re afraid to fail you won’t make any progress and there is only progress or regress, there’s no standing still. When you don’t attempt something for fear of falling on your face, you don’t move forward, and you end up shriveling into a version of yourself that is not as great as it could be.

This is true about the bigger tasks in life, and it can lead to a feeling of not even wanting to try. When it seems impossible it can be really easy to get into a defeatist mentality and that just adds to the impossibility of it all. The best course of action is to reach back into your past and find a situation that seemed impossible at first which eventually was accomplished and led to success. We all have them, and tapping into that power of belief in order to apply it to your current impossible seeming situation is key to starting on it with the right mind set. There’s no guarantee that your long-term plan will succeed because you never know what will happen in the future. None of us do. The only time you have complete control of is right now, so that’s the best time to do all of the things you’ve been wanting to do but have been putting off until some vague future date. Put some things into motion and see where it leads.

It’s easy to get into the mentality that you have to wait for the perfect opportunity to present itself before you’ll start to work hard. But the trick is to work hard so that the perfect opportunity can present itself. It’s amazing what opens up when you start giving it your all every day. You’ll find that people, situations, and events will happen in your life that are the result of the work you’ve done. It’s easy to look at someone’s success and think that it happened overnight, but most of the time what you’re witnessing is just the last part of their journey. You’re missing all of the work that went into where they got, because no one like to report on that part of the process. Choose just one role model of success and you can be sure that their formula is just to repeat the same small things each day, day after day, until eventually that adds up to a win whether in business, sports, or their personal life.

It may be safer to never take a shot, but the result is that you don’t make the shot, so it’s the same as missing the shot. Rather than not take the shot and still get the same result, take the shot. The worst that can happen is that you’ll be right where you would have been had you not taken the shot. Often we feel that it will be worse if we try and miss than if we don’t try at all. But that just isn’t so, and it’s important to take the shots that come by in life so that you can say you’ve played the game rather than just observed. Accept your mistakes, whether it was harassment or the habit of bullying or creepshots or stalking. Apologize, you know you've made a mistake. It’s not a good idea to expect someone else to come by and change your life for you. They will 100% without a doubt mess it up for you, be it your parents, extended family members, so called 'best friends", co-workers or relatives. You need to cut these type of people out from your life. Only you can do it, and if you want to make a change in your life and be more than you’ve been, you have to be the one that provides the energy, that takes the steps.

Communication solves EVERYTHING: your relationship with your significant other or girlfriend or crush and/or your children, your business, your clients, your health, and your overall sanity and well-being. You know what you did. Go with gratitude and apologize.

/r/AskReddit Thread