I mean, he may have thought of it. He’s never said a word about going to a nursing home to me or my brother but apparently he tells my sister that lives in another state that he doesn’t want to go to one. I told her to drive her ass back up here and take him to live with her since she feels so bad for him.
She doesn’t understand why my brother and I don’t have a lot to do with him anymore. We may have all come from the same family, but he wasn’t the same father to all of us. He was abusive to her too but it didn’t last as long and wasn’t as bad because by high school she was taller than him and then she got married right out of school and left. My brother and I were stuck with him for years and still live nearby.