Be yourself..... Unless youre intentionally not being yourself and doing other things intentionally to see if anyone is spying on you. However, the latter is very time consuming and can get tiring after awhile. Especially if you’re not normally not that much of an asshole and do not watch that much porn.

Anyways, I will be real for a moment. As far as being in a relationship with a girl or guy. I think it is better to be yourself. If the girl likes you or maybe loves you, and/orhas prior knowledge of you from or her friends spying on you, well she might be crazy but she I guess she likes you. If a girl genuinely likes you, he will like You regardless.