It sounds like you have a pretty clear idea of what you’re looking for, and I like that. Just because someone is submitting to me and devoting them self to my pleasure doesn’t mean I don’t want the arrangement to be mutually enjoyable. And there’s not just one kind of Findom and I’m not a mind reader, I can’t know what’s best for each sub without them giving me some information. I’ve enjoyed relationships similar to what you’re describing, and while we’d have to work out a few more exact details, I think what you’ve described so far would be incredibly enjoyable for me.

I’m very selective about my subs and I have high expectations. But if you serve me well, you will be rewarded. I’d rather devote a large amount of time to just a few or even a single sub than have so many that I can’t be the best Domme that I’m capable of being. I feel comfortable promising to chat at least 5 days a week via kik, email, or on here. And only one sub has ever gotten to this level, but he served me long enough and generously enough that I eventually gave him my personal snapchat which I use for friends only, not subs, and access to my private Instagram lingerie blog that I typically don’t allow men to follow. So those modes of communication are a possibility as well, eventually.

As far as the exact details of the arrangement, this is something I’d want you to help collaborate with me on and I’d need some information on your income and non-negotiable expenses. But as you suggested, I like the idea of having set weekly payments to be expected by a certain day and time each week, with late fees that increase the more you are late. Ideally, you would give me some sort of sensitive information that would make payments enforceable. Alternately/additionally, you could give me access to shop with your credit card, and paying off what I rack up would become your responsibility. I have expensive tastes, so that wouldn’t be hard ;) A final possible idea would be that the tables could be turned, and rather than you giving gifts to your Domme, you would turn over all income except what is necessary for the minimum living expenses. If you wanted something extra, you’d have to ask for the money to do it and you’d be at my mercy. Not exactly what you described, but along the same lines. I’m interested in hearing your thoughts.