That comment came off the wrong way since he said this sub is the next braincels. Im sure you had stated that this isn't a purely incel sub but a blackpilled one discussing racism in the dating market - maybe mutually inclusive but nonetheless without the same toxic anti women vibes.

incels here have been victimized more than most.

Agreed. I just hate incels who bring down others who may have a chance of ascending - this doesn't mean me in particular but the many naive first timers who may have a shot. I'd rather not see someone descend to depression and lower mental health by hearing "it's over" repeatedly. I have said it before and I would continue to say it in a sarcastic way to add comic relief. But end of the day I do acknowledge that there is personal responsibility one has to account for what he/she engages in indulging. If that's to be like ER and take your frustrations out on innocent people- I'm not in favour.

I love this sub and do identify as an incel (maybe one without too much hate). So yes I agree on not virgin bashing or shaming.