Completely unrelated but I couldn't see a way to message you. I know my last response to you was pretty random and didn't really carry the context of your last reply, but I just realised that the OP posting that was extending a hand held out in desperation....

I tried to steer the conversation in a direction that I think OP should hear without addressing them directly as I may have already come across to them as buffoonish..

I'm an idiot for not realising sooner.. I responded to thier post in chat because I wasn't sure how my honest opinions on life after death would be received publicly. They didn't respond and I think it's because they were seeking confirmation for what they're considering...

If you can message me please do.