We are same, new to area, not sure about poly but wife has needs, not sure what we are. yrs ago she asked for it to be open marriage for her, we both indulged but she asked for me to stop and just her. THen it kind of just stopped and havent really address since. We react well to an Alpha int he room, we are fun for him and relaxed and go with the flow so if an Alpha had thoughts about us he could pretty much dictate what he wanted. We are older mid 40s attractive getting to fit but not there, both have incredible unmet sexual needs..And we dont have sex as neither initiates as we are both more sub and not driving force for it, we want someone to demand it.