perma ban speedrun

She cheated on you. If any other non-BPD woman cheated on you, it would hurt the same.

And it is your responsibility to walk away.

But instead you couldn't do it bc you love her... so you started to wait for her to hurt you again not realizing you are the one who started the toxic pattern...

And then you go on a subreddit telling people "You were right... Her BPD made her do that to me"

And us, faithful ones, caring ones are now looked at as evil monsters and we are paranoid that our friends, our partners are screenshoting, recording etc. to feed their selffulfilling prophecy about BPD people... not realizing that if we find out ... then we will feel as betrayed and cheated on as you did ... and you will make us spiral... and then it will used against us...

This is a vicious circle and we will always be the losers.

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