Please help, need advice

Okay so my mom is more okay with me being lesbian than my dad. He knows I am according to my mother but she told me he said he doesn't wanna talk about it with me and she told me I shouldn't bring it up to him or he's just gonna hurt my feelings. I wouldn't qualify for the school benefit if i move out of the state and my dad could choose to take it away from me if he ever wanted to. Another part of me wanting to leave so bad is this control they have over me even with my education. I will probably give them a talk closer to when i would possibly leave just incase if it goes south i wouldn't have to still live here for long time. I really appreciate the advice.

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