Have you thought about maybe making your own subreddit for ppl like you, who Also can't find one, but would like one to have?

And with you as the Mod of the subreddit, you can also control the creepers and lurkers. You can also make the rules of the subreddit to fit in to the way you want it to be.

There is women out there that are looking for other women to talk to about their experience, good, bad, or indiffer.

With limited subreddits available to certain situations, it what brings fourth the need, and eventually someone to create the subreddit itself. And personally, I think you would be great at it.

I know a couple of females I have been able to talk to, would like very much to have a place to find others like themselves. Especially those who would like to be able to express their feelings without worry of judgement, with other people who share in the same views. Also to maybe find answers, or reason to certain situations, or even to actually admit to things that they can't normally admit to in real life, but would like to find someone who without judgement will listen to them.

The need is there for a subreddit to be created. It may be slow building up a following, but it's always better to be there for one, then not be there for anyone.

Just my thoughts on it. I really hope you will consider making a subreddit as such, so that eventually ppl will find their way to a place of being able to finally talk about things, that society doesn't want to hear, or recongize.