Yeah I tried asking her, she is not comfortable talking to me about that. All she said was she is intersex and has CAIS. It's not that I am a new acquaintance, we are very close friends for 3 yrs now.. I didn't know this about her. I am not from a western country where it's easy to communicate and people are considerate, in third world countries women are considered as trophies and a child bearing machine. I am not like that, and I don't want to enter into a relationship just for the sake of it, it's for a long term. I am okay to live child free, it doesn't bother me but I wanted to know this for her sake as well, to know our boundaries. And why is it wrong to ask questions on intimacy, isn't this a part of relationship ?