this is long so i don’t expect anyone to read but

my boyfriend is a triplet. when they were 6 months old his dad got into a terrible work accident and was almost electrocuted to death. he literally survived short of a miracle. that’s beside the point. so HIS MOM WAS LEFT TO HANDLE 6 MONTH TRIPLETS WITH completely different medical needs… all by herself. and when i asked her how she did it. she said something along the lines, “i did it because i had to do it. i had no other choice. we didn’t have family ready to help at the drop of a hat, we couldn’t afford to hire a nurse or a nanny. i cried for the first whole day wake up to bedtime and thru all of their naps. but i realized it was only making the situation harder. for EVERYONE. for me for the boys and for my husband who was stuck on the couch half dead and had to watch the situation unfold. so i sucked it up and i fucking did it. if i kept up the sulking crying and complaining i couldn’t have done it .”

obviously it’s very different to colleen’s situation. but everyone has struggles, and of course it’s okay to be upset when life is hard. but with her situation it can be 100% completely doable. she is able to hire as many nanny’s as she needs. she could even hire a private chef to take feeding the family off her plate, she could hire more people to help with her videos. she has the resources and connections to be able to completely outsource her entire life. she wouldn’t have to lift a damn finger. but she needs content and stuff to cry about so her fans will feel bad for her and keep giving her money and gifts.