Hi everyone,
I didn't think I would have to make a google doc this early into streaming but here it is. I hope you will read this entire thing, since I think I'm the only person who can tell my own side properly. I don't think I ever did anything wrong, and I have always stayed true to myself in this matter.
On January 14th, BigBossBoze went live in regards to Bob7's response to the allegations made by Destiny on January 4th, 2021. During that stream, Boze leaked my name, and so I am now forced to talk about it, and will only address what is relevant to me as concisely as I can.
On Jan. 3rd, I was pulled into the infamous "10+ girls group call". Within that call Boze alleged that Bob did various bad things. Due to the narration that was being provided to me, I was curious and asked if he did anything sexual with any of the other girls. The reasoning was because, around two weeks prior, Bob7 had called me while drunk and made sexual jokes toward me. All of the girls said that he had never done anything toward them, to my recollection. However, because I have no real dating, flirting or relationship history, when the girls started telling me I was sexually harassed, I assumed this was the truth. Boze then went forward saying we had to report this, and all of the other allegations.
I then later retracted my allegation due to my view on the situation changing and realizing that to me right now, this is between Bob7 and I and nobody else, and did not enjoy having my allegations talked about even when I was not present.
From then point on, nothing on my end really happened, and I was kicked out from the girl’s group chat call after that a few days after.
Boze is painting an incorrect image of me, highlighting points where I said that I would “do what is best for my career” and “see both sides and see the benefits of either side”.The leaked screenshot was when I was still operating under the assumption that everything Boze had said in the call was fully correct. I do not know what other conversations between her and I that she has leaked, but it is likely just the exact same things shown here. I still do not think I did anything wrong. It has always been Destiny/Boze vs Bob7, and I think that expressing that I have to see which would be best for me, is not something wrong to judge.
Sadly, at some points, it felt like I was heavily manipulated by both sides that I felt the only thing I could trust was doing what was best for me. That is also why I contemplated recording calls, so I could review them with a clearer mind at my own pace to understand things better, and the same with my withdrawal from the situation.
Boze’s excitement to leak my logs, despite me telling her NOT to, is in my eyes, really wrong. Even if I go under the guise that she really tried to cover my name, which she did not properly do, I believe that the moment she leaked the logs, against my consent, it would be obvious that it was me, given my usual typing habits. Her excitement to post our logs, in addition to her explicitly acknowledging that the public would likely be able to figure out WHO it is either way, I find very disrespectful to me, especially after I explicitly told her I did not want to be publicly involved.
Overall, I have said everything that I believe is how I connect into this. I hopefully do not plan to have to revisit this, and I hope that moving forward this will not affect how people see me, which is also why I did not want this to go public.
I shouldn’t have to say this, but please do not come into my chat or join my “community”, or just interact with me in hopes that I will talk about this again. Right now I just want to be left alone and not a part of this.
Thank you, Ofeliabear
P.S. - I feel it is only right to highlight other girl’s experiences with this that were put in similar situations as me. Below I have linked Kaceytron’s statement, feel free to read it and take this into account as well. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1uqJFA4ecD-XTHQlnOppTA5RgoQ060NgM2fqCnFAPvTc/edit?usp=sharing