The complaint about femcels is not so much about Chad only, but the fact that:
Very few woman are literally involuntarily emphasis on involuntarily celibate. Almost all women have options if they put in the minimum of effort.
There are trufemcels, but they are rare. I’m not ‘invalidating your experience’ but you’re an outlier. Most have plenty of social and sexual experiences, and many have been in multiple relationships. Some are even currently in relationships or engaged or married!
No matter how lonely a women is it will never compare to the loneliness felt by the guys on this sub. Doesn’t mean you can’t be lonely or depressed of course you can. But it’s not the same. It’s like a millionaire saying he/she is lonely or depressed. Of course you can be, money doesn’t pay happiness. But it does not compare to what a poverty sticken person might feel.
Women always have a chorus of supportive friends no matter what they do, and multiple suitors at any point in time. Not to mention online attention. Society basically gives you awards just for waking up everyday. I’m sure that you are struggling with a lot in your life. I’m not telling you the obstacles in your life don’t exist, but they do not come close to what the average man has to deal with.
Femcels have the gaul to invalidate incels’ experiences after appropriating their entire culture. Saying they just need to work on themselves or whatever. And insisting on painting the community as racists, misogynists, and pedophiles.
They want to look down on incels as if we are beneath them for being in the same situation. But they get angry when we clearly state just that, that even the loneliest woman still has infinitely higher status than a lonely male.