He’s tall, and that’s usually enough for most black women, but he seems very nice and a lot of them seriously hate that. They love to act like this isn’t true, but it’s literally a common trope in black culture for women to reject and feel less respect for kind black men. One of the main reasons black culture is more violent is because it’s basically a reproductive strategy: black men have to be or at least seem dangerous to be attractive to their own women. The guy in the video lacks a threatening presence so she doesn’t desire him or honestly see him as a man, because women, especially black women, value masculinity as violence more than anything else.