There are TONS of gays at Villanova. TONS, not all are out but speaking from experience there a lots. If you are out & find the community, you will do just fine! But I also didn't come out till mid-sophomore year and I've never had any problem. This semester I'm in a class and there's like 7 gay kids in the class. I have heard bad experiences with some of my gay friends regarding frat guys but I personally have always stayed away from them and just minded my business and it's all fine, from my perspective. Not to mention we're close to Philadelphia & there's a whole section of the city (the Gayborhood) with great gay bars to go to when it's your time. Message me if you wanna chat!