It sounds like you primarily live out of the US, and those questions somehow insulted or offended you.

What does real life experiencia and living in different countries have to do with this? Well, since the subject is about what we find attractive; mine is based on being a foreign raised person who moved to another country. If you've only known the US lifestyle and lack of dominant culture, how would you begin to understand my perspective? If you've never submerged yourself in a foreign culture and embraced it as your own and made it your home, how would you know the frustration of re-training yourself to social norms?

Maybe we should try to establish what we consider to be feminine features. I would consider feminine features to be understanding, soft and caring, maternal, affectionate, emotionally alert, and submissive. Since you live out of the US. Would you disagree with these?