which you took out of context to try to prove me that you understand what I understand etc.

Quite frankly that doesn't really make any sense to me.

I'm not trying to prove anything. I'm just offering a realistic perspective based on something you said you didn't understand. So it was an attempt to offer perspective. If your "I don't understand", was disingenuous and meant to be more "I can't relate to", because "I would walk 10 minutes", then I'd have not said anything. You don't have to add a question for someone to comment. There is a real common tendancy for people to complain about neighbours without actually having spoken to them. Since you didn't mention any real discussion about that it seems that is the case, which reminds me of a Luxembourg Wurst

I did already kind of agree to disagree in that I said I think I'd deal with it differently, but I don't really agree with how you characterised my comment in first place, which is what I'm addressing. But I'm happy to you to disagree with that too!