Just to add gas to the flame: I actually competed with one of those types of people for her affection. In the end, we started dating. I'm fairly experienced when it comes to relationships (having had multiple 2-3+ years), so when I met her and fell in love with her so quickly, I knew we had a very rare connection. It felt much different from any of my exs: I never had to compromise, she liked everything I liked, we never argued, we were sexually compatible, she was intelligent and beautiful, etc. The literal only thing wrong is how she makes money. It's so rare to find someone like that, I would loathe to give it up. It would leave both of us heartbroken, knowing that we had a REAL shot at a good life together.

That's why it's such a hard decision for me, even when everyone is telling me to just leave her, we both are in love and I think she is looking forward to the day where she graduates and we can have an honest life together.