No. I am accepting and would never want someone to change who they are at their core. That never works and always ends up with resentment. And a relationship like that would never last. But now that it’s more than casual and we are making future plans that involve finances and careers and kids, I am struggling to understand if he can truly love me and want a sexual relationship with me long term. Or is it going to fade into me being just his friend and roommate? Because I already had a dead bedroom for two decades and I don’t want to ever be in a relationship like that again. To be constantly rejected and not desired. I guess the only person who can tell me that is him. But I don’t think he is being truly honest with himself or me about what he wants so that’s why I am posting here. Can you help me understand what he might be thinking?