As you come here to tell us to be nicer and make strawman arguments to rationalize our behavior, at some point you gotta realize youre a caricature of the person you wish you were.
You have deep roots, so with that I apologize.
You should know with deep roots and an ever sturdier foundation that caricature can become what it wills to be. Self-awareness, and self-improvement. I saw myself for a small moment in the people you're all shaming, but then I realize hedonism is what satisfies these peoples Superego, their Id might as well be a synonym to the Superego.
They fundamentally do not rationalize or think the same way. Therefore I shouldn't project myself onto them.