They're all the victim?! The women, while sober, will go back home if they know they're being followed. They're a victim. You literally can't complete that quest without Henry being forced to have sex. Also a victim.

The priest one is pretty sketchy too, as you've said. It also has a ton of complaints because people, unsurprisingly, don't like to be forced into having sex by the game for a decision they had that had absolutely nothing to do with sex!

Adult content doesn't bother me, I think the Theresa courtship quest line is really wholesome. The lady Stephanie quest is pretty clear about what's happening. In both cases you know what you're getting into and everyone involved is sober and consenting. I expect that a game based on player choice not to force you into sex, I think that's pretty fair. Especially in a game that has a 'Virgin' achievement.