I don't know if this is the place for it or not but it's keeping me awake at night. On Saturday, my husband and I went for a nice ride on our motorcycles. On our way back, we stopped by the liquor store so my husband could pick up his favorite tequila. I was finishing up parking my bike and I hear him chatting to someone about his favorite tequila. I can hear him because we have comms in our helmets and we leave our helmets on when running into a store real quick. I finish parking my bike and walk into the liquor store and I see three young women dressed up for a night on the town talking to my husband as my husband is explaining why they should choose this particular brand of tequila. Thinking nothing of it, I chime in it is really good and blah blah blah. We check out, they check out, and we head home.

Yesterday, I was browsing Craigslist bored while waiting for a file to load when I decide to click on the missed connections. I personally think they are hilarious and will occasionally visit seeking a chuckle or two. I came across one and my stomach sank. The location was our hometown, at the liquor store we went to on the very day we went. The message said "You three girls were buying tequila and asked me about the one I picked up I definitely felt a connection with one of you as our eyes kept meeting. I’d like to get to know you more What tequila did I buy?"

I don't know what do to. I don't know what to think. There are too many similarities to think it's a coincidence! I don't think my husband would ever do that, but there's this ever present doubt and I can't shake it. Am I being crazy, am I thinking too much into it? Should I put my big girl pants on and do the right thing which is ask him? I don't even know, I'm so besides myself. It's heavy, I'm sorry. I feel lost and confused.