I'm going to take a little differing approach. Vulnerability is strength. Communities that base around a common sense of vulnerability are stronger. When you can admit, recognise, and accept and the weaknesses in yourself, you are empowered. Empowered to then see the same in other people and connect through it, to support each other and make all of your lives healthier. Happier. Fulfilling.

Vulnerability is shame. When you were too ashamed to go to the doctors even though you needed to "because getting help means I'm weak, less of a man, not strong". When you build around accepting and overcoming the shame you and others feel, they fade & stop holding you back. Setting you free to accept yourself for the flawed human you are - just like everyone else. Give your empathy to others, tell them "It's ok, we love you for your vulnerabilities, we all need the same things", and others will do the same for you.

The community we need is one that lets you be yourself, unashamedly. Not one that tears each other down out of envy, spite and malice.