Even if you're "small" I'm pretty sure there are websites that sell "small" condoms. Like ik how you feel I'm not as old as you but I'm not the biggest at all. Maybe 4.85 inches with 3 In girth. Don't let your hypo stop you!! Its a birth defect not your fault.also remind a girl or guy that you have a birth defect. This is what i would...Say I have a birth defect on my pp and I had a hole at the tip of my penis(using mine as a example) when I was born which made me a little smaller than others. Just be up front with them I'm betting if you show that it doesn't affect you they won't care they might find it cool if you didn't get sugary for it. And look at it like this you could have a micro penis and not be able to get it in at all. Just work with what you got. Life is to short to be depressed about something you can't change.