I date all races but mostly first generation middle eastern guys, South Americans or white. They tend to treat me more like a woman, there's never arguments about paying, marriage, being a provider, etc. Currently dating a brazilian mixed white guy and i met him at this rock climbing group I joined. I think those are great places to meet people and that's where I met a few dates. I think with online dating it's easier for guys with fetishes to find us lol. Whereas in grouos you build a friendship with some guy and they ask you out, and they just happen not to be black.

Honestly as an african, I feel African American women are too good for their male counterparts. The rates at which you guys are opening businesses, buying property, and making moves politically, socially etc is just so uncomparible. Statistically 80%+ of married AA women are breadwinners. I think widening options is the best idea (which sucks because we all want black children).

African men are great. I had the same problem that you mentioned in another comment where all the african men I've met were nigerian so that's why I haven't dating other african guys. If you are super stuck on black love then that's an option. Just please don't choose struggle love in the name of black love !!