What are you some kind of TERF!!!?? (just joking).
No, you won't get banned.
Speaking as a non-authority who hasn't given much thought to these issues, I (for what it's worth) agree with most of this and disagree with some of it. However, people have a right to disagree about the meanings of words and put their own spin on words, however absurd it seems to others.
For the most part, I think this kind of discussion is (at best) tangential to socialist discourse. At worst, it can be harmful because it creates divisions in the movement over id_pol stuff.
I worry that transgender issues have been pushed harder than is strategically apporpriate in the last few years and that the data probably shows we're currently suffering a backlash (ie the right uses transgender bathrooms to rile people up the way they used to use abortion to rile people up).
There are plenty of spots on reddit to discuss these issues with folks who think like you