Of course I’m married. Of course my mother is married.
Three times the average household is…not a lot. You confuse class with money; it’s okay, a lot of trash does.
You weren’t raised by a good quality woman. Was she abused by your dad? Did you grow up with vitriol about women? Sounds like it. High quality women aren’t surrounded by views like this.
I simply don’t believe your background is respectable. Absolutely no one from a respectable family works anywhere near a strip club. It is simply not done. It has nothing to do with coddling. It is not at all acceptable and would bring complete shame and disrepute to a proper family. What kind of woman would marry someone with that in their background?? Serious question. My family would absolutely die.
McDonald’s, factory work, farming- no one is going to slag honest, hard work.
To lie in the underbelly of sex work is a different beast. How does one even find a job like that? What kind of people are in your circle that this would be acceptable. Scary.