Do you feel an emotional connection with the mountain you climb? Or do you feel good because climbing a mountain is hard? Men don't want easy women, it has nothing to do with the depth of connection and everything to do with exclusivity and status. It says something about yourself if you have to pay for it, it says something else entirely about yourself if you get it because you are socially calibrated.

The issue is that there is massive conseq. from approaching nowadays because you can get canceled or accused. So men are less likely to take risks that would result in them normally floundering into pussy at times and learning from their mistakes at other times. What makes it even worse for these guys is that on top of the fear of conseq. and the fear of rejection there is also tons of porn for them to escape to.