Im apologize if this post seemed like a rant, I can assure you its more of a personal observation that lead me to share this.

With that being said you are a rare and rather lucky individual with whom have had experiences with talking to women whom are not trying to sell to you.

Be that as it may, without the ethics of porn being involved and the awareness of past pirated scat videos:

I want to clarify that I am in no way against women who do videos for money: so its no hate, just pointing out dismissal (at least in my experience) without promise of payment or unwillingness to pay.

You are right, this is a more male dominant fetish with many being aggressive when they try to talk to a woman who shares the interest. So I understand the process of making money from it. But it doesn't change the fact that makes those who put up a pay wall are in the same boat of prostitution. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but not everyone (such as myself) believe in paying for services.

So with that being said trying to stay positive with even talking to a woman who shares the interest seems like almost a zero sum game. With only the occasional situation as a gentleman such as yourself that get to talk to someone without them dismissing your attempts without promise of payment.